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Books To Read
  • A Thomas Jefferson Education: Teaching a Generation of Leaders for the Twenty-First Century (The Leadership Education Library)
    A Thomas Jefferson Education: Teaching a Generation of Leaders for the Twenty-First Century (The Leadership Education Library)
    by Oliver DeMille
  • The Father's Tale: A Novel
    The Father's Tale: A Novel
    by Michael O'Brien
  • Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature-Deficit Disorder
    Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature-Deficit Disorder
    by Richard Louv
  • Mysteries of Life in Children's Literature
    Mysteries of Life in Children's Literature
    by Dr. Mitchell Kalpakgian, Dr. Mitchell Kalpakgian

    Highly recommend this one!

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Friday
May252012

{ 7 Quick Takes }

--- 1 ---

Regular baseball season is over.  My little John (up above) did not play but was so excited about his brother's games that over the course of the season we added to the Red Sox t-shirt he received for Christmas.  He is a cutie and plays whole 9 inning games pretending to be a star player on his team.  He allows himself to be struck out by the imaginary pitcher.  He allows himself to be picked off by imaginary infielders.  And he allows himself the occasional homerun (both in the park out of the park homeruns).  He's a cutie!

--- 2 ---

 

And here's Thomas (aka Ice Man).  He had a fun season and was dubbed the ice man as they would bring him in and it would take a lot to throw his concentration.  He's just a kid that loves baseball.

--- 3 ---

This week just felt like a really long long week.  I'm not sure exactly what it was that made it seem so ... but it did.  Unfortunately, due to baseball season I was unable to attend the final lecture by Prof. Koons with our host, Jennifer Fulwiler, as a special guest.  I'm sure it was wonderful and am looking forward to hearing about it from those who were in attendance.  

--- 4 ---

It's close to summer and my daughter, Mary Rachel, my baby girl, will start her little summer business.  For the last 3 years or so she has advertised herself, through my wife Jennifer's email groups, as a "Mother's Helper".  She basically offers a service where she will come to your house and entertain your children so you can get things done a bit more 'efficiently'.  It's not quite baby sitting as Mom is still there doing what she needs to get done but it's been very helpful for the ladies who have taken advantage of the help/service.  Well, she still loves dolls and had her eye on a new American Girl doll last year so she worked as much as she could to earn the money for the doll and many of the accessories available.  This stuff is not cheap!  So, what is the target for this year?  An iPad.  She's not a greedy little girl though and says she doesn't need the latest one.  She'd be happy with the iPad 2. 
So, if you're in the Austin area and need a little help in occupying your children with some playtime that you don't have to monitor drop me a line  and I can connect you to a young, resourceful and cute 12 year old entreprenuer.

--- 5 ---

I'm not the most impatient person but if I have to wait in line somewhere I like to have something to read.  At the same time, I sometimes don't have time to go through and read all the articles I come across at the time I come across them.  The solution? Pocket

 

This little tool allows me to capture articles, videos, pictures, etc as I'm going through the web doing other things so I can then come back and view them.  And when i say capture I don't mean actually copy them.  It just allows me to pull them up later on my iPhone or iPad when I have the time.  I've got 6 kids...I'm at the grocery store almost everyday for something.  This lets me catch up on articles that I want to read rather than the ones on the newstands.  Though I still may snag a snickers while in line.  There's no app for that...yet.

--- 6 ---

 

This is Dominic.  He's my 7 year old and a real cutie too.  The book of the week is The Hobbit and he is just eating it up.  It's such a joy to see him so immersed in the story.  It's always disappointing for him when we get to the end of the chapter as that signals bedtime!

--- 7 ---

Music video for the week....It's hot and so it's summer here in Texas.  Time for a good ol' summer song.

Gimmie That Girl!  

 

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Friday
May182012

{ my baby girl }

This is my baby girl.  I call her 'baby girl'.  When i pick her up from ballet class at Slavin Nadal School of Ballet I say "Hi, baby girl!".  She'll always be my baby girl.  I realize I may be somewhat biased as she's my (everyone now..) baby girl but I really do think she is a beautiful young girl and I see myself needing to go out and start shopping for a deterrent device.

She is a young girl who, this year, will become an actual teenager.  A TEENAGER!  I'm not sure I'm quite ready for that but at the same time she has a real sense of innocence and a heart of compassion.  I am so proud of her and the young woman she is becoming.

Just last month or so I had a real sense of accomplishment while we were out together.  Many years ago - before I was married - I attended a conference where James Stenson gave a talk around raising children.  It made such a lasting impression that I've carried many of his thoughts with me.  One of these involved how to treat your daughter as a proper young lady with respect so that she will grow up knowing what it is like to be respected so she can discern through the young men that she meets.

I realize I will never be able to follow her around with my friend everywhere she goes to make sure she is treated right so it has been my 'goal' to make sure I try and follow these little points:

  • always maintain eye contact
  • treat her kindly and gently
  • always try and open the door for her
  • 'protect' her from her sometimes clueless brothers  

Well, it finally happened.  We were going into a store and rather than just pull ahead and beat me to the door she waited for me to get there - pulled over to the side - and waited for me to open the door...no, pulled aside and expected me to open the door for her.  

In a Dad's heart it felt like a real triumph.   My Baby Girl is growing up...

{Deus Caritas Est}

Friday
May182012

{ 7 Quick Takes }

--- 1 ---

I'm a bit of a dweeb but I do like some science fiction.  This week I finished "reading" Shadows in Flight (The Shadow Series) by Orson Scott Card.  I put reading in quotes as I have friends who won't give me props or the same credit for audible books as 'real' books.  I of course don't agree but that's for another time and post.  This book is from the Ender Series of books which I've enjoyed for some time now.  It's an interesting premise and can lead to discussions on what is a just war.  Interestingly, Card is a mormon but the main character comes from a Catholic family and is the 3rd and youngest child of a family.  He (Ender) was only allowed to be conceived by a government that has a 2 child mandate after the 2 older siblings didn't qualify for battle school.  That opens the door to all sorts of discussion as well...

--- 2 ---

This is one of the "real" books I'm currently reading (albeit in digital format).  I'm about half way through it and really am enjoying it.  It has a great chapter by our wonderful host, Jennifer Fulwiler.  Pick up a copy and get reading.

--- 3 ---

Here's something that's been on my mind.  My oldest is 14 and my youngest 3.  In all this time I've never really been one for traditional children's songs.  You know?  Recordings of Raffi (sp?) doing Row, Row, Row Your Boat or Itsy Bitsy Spider or something like that.  We did/still do have had CD's of Sara HickmanJoe McDermott and Austin's own Biscuit Brothers and every once in a while they will be played but for the most part that's about it.  When Joshua, my oldest, was about 4 or 5 he fell in love with the James Taylor Live CD and learned all the songs and would actually 'perform' the songs (lip syncing) while on our coffee table.  Well, fast forward 9 years and now my youngest, John, will walk around the house singing things like "Born in the USA" or "Oh, Oh, We're half way there...Oh, Oh, Livin' on a Prayer" or "so remember, your people.  remember your children.  remember your promises, O God....cuz your grace is enough..." and other songs that you would not necessarily hear in a 3 yr old's repertoire.  All that to ask the question....Am I depriving my kids of some sort of toddler right of passage that they experience by learning "she'll be coming round the mountain"?  Will they be mocked as they grow up and hang out with other parents and staring back at them blankly as they think "you want me to sing what?".  I love music so it's a tough call for me.

--- 4 ---

Little league baseball season is almost over for us.  One more week and done...hopefully.  I'm not sure what to with all the 'extra' time once it's done  ....

--- 5 ---

As Jenn said, she'll be speaking at my parish this Monday.  Hope to make it but it all depends on whether Joshua's team wins or loses this weekend.

--- 6 ---

Everyone's heard about the HHS mandate but I had no idea this was also going on...

Rules to implement health care law require separate abortion premium

This is just not right!

--- 7 ---

Ed Sheeran is a new favorite artist of mine.  Here's a song he wrote for a friend of his who had a miscarriage.

 

 

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Monday
May142012

{ something about being a Dad and having sons }

I'm not sure what it is but the last few times I've been out with my boys I've just been struck by how cool it is to get out of a truck and have your boys in tow as you walk into a place.  I mean, getting out of a truck and then having 5 sons follow you into a store has to kinda make you feel like a bada**.  You're there walking with your beat up shorts or jeans and all have your baseball caps on and people just move out of your way (not to mention that my oldest is almost a foot taller than me).

The funny thing is I don't get the same reactions as my wife does.  They see her with the boys and the first question is sometimes an incredulous "are they all yours?!?".  Now, the difference could be that she will usually have the 6 in tow (adding my beautiful daughter, Mary) or that they just assume I'm some baseball coach - but still...why the difference?  Is it really that if you're a dude with 5 boys in tow you are flexing some procreative prowress but if you're a woman you've been taken advantage of and are being suppressed by some overbearing ox at home?  I honestly don't know...it's a real question.

All that being said - I still felt like a bada** walking into the store with my boys.  More later....

 

{ Deus Caritas Est }

Friday
May112012

{ 7 Quick Takes }

--- 1 ---

Our family has been homeschooling for 9 years and a couple months ago Jenn and I attended a mini-conference with Andrew Pudewa from the Institute for Excellence in Writing - which, by the way, we highly recommend!  Well during one of his talks he mentioned a resource called a A Thomas Jefferson Education: Teaching a Generation of Leaders for the Twenty-First Century (The Leadership Education Library) .  Well I just finished this book and it has inspired and influenced me so much that we are going to be changing the way we homeschool next year. I highly recommned it!

--- 2 ---

Please lend your voice to this.

--- 3 ---

Sunday is Mother's day so it's time to get off your duff and get it done, men!  I will admit that I did fall short in getting something out today for my own mother but there will be a package in the mail hopefully tomorrow...though what I have no idea!

--- 4 ---

Video for my earlier blog post

--- 5 ---

An interesting resource for today's parents: Richard Louv's website.  Now I'm no tree huggin' hippy (if you know me you know that for a fact) but a lot of what he states in his book Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature-Deficit Disorder makes a lot of sense.  There are so many kids these days that have no appreciation for nature and stifle their imagination by watching so much tv or playing video game after video game that they don't know what to do when they are outside.  You can sometimes see them 're-orient' themselves to playing regular games outside.  Our family is not a hardcore outdoor family but we do limit tv to either 30 min or 60 min a day if that and our boys just have the habit of playing outside.  They love to get muddy (as seen above) and just like playing with sticks and rocks when a ball is not available.  It is struggle as dad to not feel the pressure to get them the latest and greatest gadgets but when I see them playing with each other (understand ages range from 3-14) and having a good time it makes me realize that that is what's important...

--- 6 ---

If anyone has any tips on picking up the sport of running i'd love to hear anything you can offer.  I'm 43 going on 44 and it's time to get into some sort of shape other than a pear so I'm all ears...

--- 7 ---

 Final one - If you're not familiar with Audrey Assad you need to get acquainted with her music.  this is one talented girl!

 

 

 

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